• This segment will need a type of journel and pen
• Some nerve

When sitting down with yourself is a complicated process involving only nerves; it gets exceedingly difficult to plan other priorities.

Realistically speaking if I say to you, ” what do you see yourself doing in five years?” Most people not having an answer is actually really common. Shocking? Maybe if you yourself have the gumption and will power of a bumblebee but even they get drunk and nap in flowers.

The point is to help reverse any stigma picked up through either other peoples negative motivations or something perceived that set you up for lacking the initiative for planning. A minute to sit with a question like, “What do I want out of life?” Can officially turn around a majority of negative behavior adoptions you have.

The type of research that is used for self-reliance and group influence is so heavy you can see where the lines go. Remember if the research didn’t work as a well being model you wouldn’t have the types of services available today. This goes for support networks of all kinds religious or not and rehabs.

In this exercise take less than fifteen minutes and just run down a bunch of questions.

What were my goals when I was younger?

Did I settle for other options based off my hard earned conclusions or someone’s opinion?

Did I lose interest or was I swindled out of actively seeking my goals?

Feel where each decision triggers your body. You’ll know which answer is correct based off the knee jerk response you have to the questions. It’ll also teach you who actually has the power in your life. Not a lot of information is out there to help heal from mitigation or motivation abstractions.

Continue the exercise by finding rough questions throughout the week and trying to think how you’re reacting and why. Eventually you’ll realize not every process is progress and not every progress was set for successes. This being said remember to take routine breaks while digesting tough questions. If you don’t like an answer you’re giving it’s likely because some else influenced your original mode of operating.

People don’t choose to lose standards sometimes it’s out of naive assumption but other times it’s like a mason chipping at stone to carve a statue.

When did someone else have the right or honor to build your statue?